Ben or Jen?

I feel like it would be unfair to not discuss my name and gender change given my last post. First off, I had so many people willing to wright me personal letters of recommendation testifying to the fact that I have socially transitioned for the required amount of time. So many kind things were said in those letters it made my heart sing! The court process is long and I have my hearing scheduled to meet with the judge. Fingers crossed I will have things completed soon. After the judge approves of everything, I need my birth certificate changed. Then My Social S. card, then My drivers license, then I can start changing things at banks and so forth. So even after the order, I have my busy work cut out for me. Now lets talk a bit about de transitioning. The topic the post is named for... I will not lie. I have considered de transitioning. But super not for any reasons you may suppose. I have considered de transitioning because if I ever loose my amazing job, I may not be able to find a goo...