"WIG"ING OUT
Well, the divorce is officially finalized as of January 29th. I noticed the email first and told her about it. Then we held each other and cried. She was never really happy with me. The signs were always there. I remember people asking us about divorce a lot. I never really thought about why that was. Her answer was always, "I dont believe in better, just different". After separation several people who know us both would say they were surprised we lasted so long. She has been complaining about me in ways beyond the normal venting for about 15 years. And though I am not saying she was always perfect I was far from that myself. I do not feel it would be proper or fair to discuss my grievances with her here. But as I have been looking at my contributions to the divorce (beyond transitioning) Here are some things I did to contribute. I was often grumpy. And though it felt reasonable for one reason or another, I am recognizing now that I always seemed to place the source of my an...