Holiday Update
I left my last post with a question for everyone to consider. I honestly dont remember where I was going with that. And so much more has happened. I also dont feel like it was a cliff hanger. So Im gonna just leave it alone and move into a holiday update. November had its rough moments. I noticed I was misgendered a lot more in public which killed my confidence for a while. Also, I mentioned in a past post that sometimes I feel excluded in women's spaces by well meaning women allies. I went to a friend gathering and we were playing cards against humanity. The prompt card was "___________ are a women's best friend". The non binary person tasked with choosing the answer turned to the 2 Cisgendered women in the group and said, "as the other 2 women, what would you choose". I was already feeling really dysphoric that day and in my head, so naturally I took it as confirmation bias and sunk into a dark place for the better part of a week. something about it comi...